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In today’s “Get To Know A Blog Mistress” interview, meet the dazzling and bewitching Ms Carmen.  Ms Carmen is a “hypnodomme” and utilizes her professional background in the hypnotic arts to seduce and provide incredibly powerful phone sessions with her clients.  While many of her callers seek her services to assist in exploring feminization and sissification fantasies, Ms Carmen’s dulcet tones and creative mind are sure to bring any man to his knees.

In addition to her hypnosis expertise, Ms Carmen also talks about her love of theatre and music and shares her personal life experiences here so that you, dear readers, may get a delightful peek into the world of the hypnotic and intoxicating presence that is Ms Carmen.

Miz Ava:  Hello Carmen! First let me say thank you for agreeing to this interview.  It’s quite an honor to have this opportunity to get to know you, as I’ve always
been so intrigued by your background in hypnosis and how this plays out in your phone sessions.

Ms Carmen: Why thank you, Miz Ava!

Miz Ava:  I also understand that you have quite a bit of experience in theatre, yes?

Ms Carmen:  Yes, I have always had a great love of theatre and dramatic arts. I’ve even taught acting classes.

Miz Ava: Wow, that’s impressive! Where did the interest in hypnosis stem from? 

Ms Carmen: I realized that what I was doing in acting classes with my students was definitely a form of hypnosis

 Miz Ava: Interesting

 Ms Carmen: So I began to take some classes and now I have had extensive training … and I am STILL in classes because I have
decided to become a clinical hypnotherapist

 Ms Carmen: I will hopefully be finished entirely by spring of two thousand eight and will open my own practice then

 Miz Ava: Amazing…good for you!

 Ms Carmen: Thank you. I honestly had no idea the doors this would open here!

 Miz Ava: Have you ever been hypnotized?

 Ms Carmen: Yes I have

 Ms Carmen: Everyone can be hypnotized.  In fact, we all have, at one time or another

 Ms Carmen: Have you ever driven on a monotonous highway for many miles and suddenly cannot recall some of it?

 Miz Ava: Oh yes…or sometimes I can’t remember coming through a certain part of the neighborhood even though I know I must have because I am past it

 Ms Carmen: Well, there you go– that’s a type of hypnosis.  Daydreaming
 is another form.
 
 Ms Carmen: There are so many misconceptions about hypnosis

  Miz Ava: Now, I always thought (and I am sure some who are reading this also would agree) that hypnosis is something that someone does to you

 Miz Ava: I didn’t realize there were other form  of hypnosis

 Ms Carmen: Yes, hypnosis is all about trance … and the different ways that a trance comes about

 Ms Carmen: Misconceptions come mostly from stage hypnosis… I have nothing to do with that

 Miz Ava: So are hypnosis and trance two different things then?  Forgive me if I sound ignorant

 Ms Carmen: Heavens, it’s okay not to know about it… most people don’t

 Ms Carmen: But hypnosis and trance are basically the same thing

 Miz Ava: Ok

 Ms Carmen: Even getting lost in a television show and not hearing someone speak to you … that’s a form of trance or hypnosis

 Ms Carmen: It’s a matter of focusing … and in the case of a hypnotherapist working with you … it become inner focus

 Miz Ava: Well, now, getting lost in front of the tv or listening to music– we’ve all been there!

 Ms Carmen: We sure have

 Ms Carmen: And you can imagine, Miz Ava, how intense a fantasy will be when there is NO distraction from the outside at all

 Miz Ava: Sounds difficult to achieve in the kind of world and surroundings we often find ourselves in

 Ms Carmen: Yes and that is why people go to a hypnotist or hypnotherapist for help in achieving this

 Miz Ava: So many of us are scattered on the inside

 Ms Carmen: I have several clients who call me because they can’t do it themselves, not even by using mp3s

 Ms Carmen: Well actually, our conscious mind is what is scattered

 Miz Ava: Yes, that is more accurate

 Ms Carmen: Our conscious mind is the critical “thinking” part of our mind … and it makes up twelve percent of our daily brain usage

 Ms Carmen: Eighty-eight percent is unconscious (or subconscious!)

 Miz Ava: This is so fascinating

 Ms Carmen: Isn’t that amazing??

 Miz Ava: Yes

 Ms Carmen: So a therapist will tap into that…through relaxation we ask the conscious mind to take a step backward …
 relax and sleep for a bit… allowing the much bigger unconscious mind to take over

 Ms Carmen: My feminization sessions are very, very successful because the desire to be feminine…the NEED to be in many cases…
 is right there in the unconscious mind and just has to be brought “forward”

 Miz Ava: That’s so incredible!   I love hearing you talk about this too, because its more than evident this is something you are passionate about your craft

 Ms Carmen: So I take control…I dominate the unconscious…and bring out the real person that way

 Ms Carmen: Oh it’s hard for me to stop once I get started, watch out! (laughs)

 Miz Ava: No, no I love it

 Ms Carmen: I do love it…more and more every day

 Ms Carmen: It’s a lot of work … I am in classes on Saturdays now from  am to 5 pm … still so much to learn

 Ms Carmen: But with each mind being so different…the playing field is vast

 Miz Ava: That makes sense though…as every day we learn more and more about the brain and how it works

 Ms Carmen: So I guess it is natural that I have become the type of domme I am …and probably always was meant to be

 Ms Carmen: I’m much more interested in the mind

 Ms Carmen: It’s very important to understand one thing–a person under hypnosis–a person in any kind of trance … will NEVER do anything they don’t want to do

 Miz Ava: I totally believe that

 Ms Carmen: So I am not imposing anything upon them

 Ms Carmen: In fact I won’t do sessions with anyone unless I have established with him that he really wants a change

 Miz Ava: You can dominate the unconscious, but you are only bringing out what was already in there

 Ms Carmen: Exactly!

 Miz Ava: That’s good to know

 Ms Carmen: It’s vital

 Miz Ava: And it’s good that you brought that up actually, so as not to lead anyone into any misconceptions about what your specialties are

 Miz Ava: Let me ask this:  Are there a larger ratio of clients who come to you for hypnosis that are also seeking feminization?

 Ms Carmen: Yes, the majority
 
 Ms Carmen: We have publicized my skills in feminization more…through the website  www.hypnofemme.com

 Miz Ava: Ah, very nice

 Ms Carmen: I also am working on another site www.hypnoseductress.com which is a general hypno site and also features erotic hypnosis

 Miz Ava: So, what is erotic hypnosis then, in its generalist terms?

 Ms Carmen: There are two main areas, then  … feminization by hypnosis and erotic hypnosis

 Miz Ava: Yes

 Ms Carmen: The latter is primarily sexual fantasy

 Miz Ava: Contrast the two for the benefit of our readers

 Ms Carmen: It is absolutely possible for a client to masturbate during hypnosis, so an erotic hypnosis session may involve
 exactly that…an intense fantasy requested by the client. OR—

 Ms Carmen: Tease and denial

 Miz Ava: Oh yes…I can see how that would work very well into that

 Ms Carmen: Denying an orgasm to a hypnotized client is yummy, for sure

 Miz Ava: Indeed!!

 Ms Carmen: I just love it

 Ms Carmen: HOWEVER, it is essential that I am entirely sure that the client wants to be controlled in that way

 Miz Ava: What does ensuring this entail?

:] Ms Carmen: I interview my clients prior to induction

 Ms Carmen: Hypnosis for the pleasure/gain of the therapist is not really usually the focus

 Miz Ava: Well and that would be unethical too

 Ms Carmen: Yes it is, unless that is specifically what the session is for

 Miz Ava: Right, that would be a different case all together then

 Ms Carmen: I try to do these interviews via email and IM, by the way, rather than during a paid session

 Miz Ava: That is really a nice touch….I am sure your clients appreciate that as well

 Ms Carmen: The term which we have applied to what I do, by the way, is “hypnodomme”

 Miz Ava: Who would not be considered a good candidate for phone hypnosis?

 Ms Carmen: Hmmm…that is a good question

 Ms Carmen: I have indeed turned down requests for sessions, and usually it is because the potential client is not really willing to be hypnotized

 Miz Ava: Is it an instinctual feeling you have about some clients?

Ms Carmen: Not really instinctive, but evidential. As I said I do interviews and I ask specific questions

Ms Carmen: If someone is just “trying it out” I do not want to waste his money or time and certainly not my time

 Ms Carmen: They must have a goal

 Miz Ava: Yes, you have a nice system in place to weed out anyone who would not really benefit from hypnosis

 Ms Carmen: Just the question “what do you seek in hypnosis?” or “what is your goal for this session” produces very revealing answers

 Miz Ava: I am sure they do

 Ms Carmen: I only eliminate clients based on the above criteria.  Anyone can be brought under hypnosis,
 even on the phone .. but they must be completely willing.  If they want to resist me, why pay me to do this? 
 So I must assume that they will cooperate fully and I have many many different induction methods to accommodate all personalities

 Miz Ava: Excellent

 Miz Ava: What I’d like to do now, is ask a few things about Carmen….just so that readers can get a little peak into your likes and dislikes in a general way

 Ms Carmen: Sounds great!

 Miz Ava: Ok!  What do you do to relax when you’re not working or in school, etc.?

 Ms Carmen: Theatre, film and reading

 Miz Ava: What was the last production you saw?  Or film, or both!

 Ms Carmen: I have subscriptions to most of the professional theatres near me and I love indie films so I see as many as I can .. I am also a Netflix junkie

 Miz Ava: I love that!

 Ms Carmen: Well, the last show I saw was “Buddy” .. a musical about Buddy Holly .. and tomorrow night I will see “Twelve Angry Men.” 
 I am woefully behind in my movie watching!  I have a copy of “Babel” sitting right here that I haven’t watched yet. 
 I guess the last film I saw was UNFORTUNATELY “Music and Lyrics,” on Valentines Day.  It was complete trash.

 Ms Carmen: That’s why I stick to indie films if I can.  And I am reading “The Memory Keeper’s Daughter” at present.

 Miz Ava: If you had to choose one movie genre: Comedy or drama?

 Ms Carmen: Ohhh wow … comedy or drama … hmmmm

 Ms Carmen: Well I probably would go for a drama. Comedy is nice though,  especially when I’m tired (laughs)

 Ms Carmen: I was primarily a musical theatre director so I do like those, but they can’t be fluff… I like the drama-inspired musicals like “Rentâ€?

 Miz Ava: What is the best musical you have seen to date?

 Ms Carmen: “Les Miserables�

 Miz Ava: Why?

 Ms Carmen: It’s gritty and real, but still has that ethereal (willing suspension of disbelief) quality of any musical.  Yet it’s deeply tragic and inspiring

 Miz Ava: Lovely!  Very, very well put

 Miz Ava: If a famous actress were to play you in a movie, who would it be?

 Ms Carmen: Sara Ramirez. She plays “Callie” on Grey’s Anatomy

 Ms Carmen: She is plumper and more curvy than I am … but she speaks volumes with her eyes and her subtext (what is under the lines, mind stuff), is incredible

 Miz Ava: Yes.  She’s gorgeous, I know who you mean and I can see the appeal too

 Ms Carmen: She also won a Tony for her singing/dancing/acting in “Spamalot” and there is that side of me too

 Ms Carmen: So yes, I would be honored to have her play me

 Miz Ava: You rely on words and tone of voice a lot to put clients in a sexy mood.  
 What has been the most sexy words ever spoken to you?  In other words, what kinds of things do you like to hear?

 Ms Carmen: The words that arouse me the most are … “You own me.”

 Miz Ava: Mmmmm

 Miz Ava: Now, is there something that we didn’t touch on that you would like to bring up?

 Ms Carmen: Yes, my sexuality.

 Miz Ava: How the hell could I have skipped that topic???

 Ms Carmen: (laughs)

 Miz Ava: I guess you had me so hypnotized here I forgot what I was supposed to be doing!

 Ms Carmen: (laughs) Yes of course!

 Ms Carmen: I have discovered that my clients really love to find out that I live with a woman

  Miz Ava: So, have you enjoyed women primarily in intimate relationships throughout your life?

 Ms Carmen: I was married to a man at one point (I’m forty-two, so my life experience is vast, and yes I am not a “young thingâ€?)

 Miz Ava: No you are just perfect

 Ms Carmen: And no, I have only just allowed myself to completely enjoy women in the last eight years or so. 
 I find that it has enhanced my prowess as a domme quite thoroughly!

 Miz Ava: Where do you think this came from?

 Ms Carmen: Sure, let me expand on that

 Ms Carmen: What I want to get across is that my partner, Alanna, and I still play with men, but they are boy-toys

 Ms Carmen:  I want to mention Alanna because a lot of callers know about her…she is scorekeeper for me on trivia
 games, etc., and I do a lot of fantasies where she is involved such sissy boys serving us in bed, etc

 Miz Ava: So, Alanna, your partner, is a submissive woman

 Ms Carmen: Yes, most of the time, but sometimes she takes control, just to let me experience the feeling of being a sub, to enhance my own skills as a domme

 Miz Ava: Nice

 Miz Ava: How did you and Alanna got together?

 Ms Carmen: Theatre–we met at a cocktail party after an opening

  Ms Carmen: She was there with a man … I was there with a man … we connected

 Miz Ava: Ahh, I see

 Ms Carmen: We’re quite different in some ways, she is a project specialist for a biotech company … the right and left brain connection

 Miz Ava: Oh, how complementary!   The right/left connection!  It sounds like you are really happy, and Alanna is a lucky lady!

 Ms Carmen: I moved to the Pacific Northwest to be with her last summer

 Ms Carmen: We have a “houseboy”, and occasionally some sissy maids

 Miz Ava:  Wow, Carmen…you really do get to experience the best of both worlds! 

Ms Carmen: Yes, I am a lucky woman to really be able enjoy what I do and have such wonderful people in my life

Miz Ava: When all is said and done, there really isn’t much more to it than that.

Ms Carmen: Very true

Miz Ava:  Well, Ms Carmen, I can’t tell you what an enormous pleasure it has been speaking with you today!  Thank you so much for sharing yourself with me.

Ms Carmen:  You are quite welcome.  I enjoyed talking to you too, Miz Ava. 

 

In this installment of “Get To Know A Blog Mistress”, meet Ms Hannah, a soft-spken, seductive and intelligent young woman who shares her views on fem-domme scenarios, sensual pain play, the role of trust in D/s exchanges, plus much more!

Ms Hannah initially began her work as a phone fantasy artist in what would be categorized as a more traditional or vanilla phone sex company before joining the ladies at Cock Control.  She recalls intuitively realizing that the traditional phone sex arena did not fit her personality and since then, she has become quite an asset to Phone Madame Ally, proprietress of the wildly successful female domination phone services offered at LDW.

 Ms Hannah enjoys coyly exerting her control over a variety of clients with different fetishes.  Not only does she perfect the art of the tease, but she also uses her background in psychology to get right inside the mind of her clients and seems to have an inherent ability to draw out exactly what her caller needs and provide a most memorable phone session.   

 Miz Ava: Tell me about Ms Hannah’s style of domination

 Ms Hannah: My style of domination, I think, would be considered more sensual

 Miz Ava: Ok I see.  And what does that evoke…the sensual?

 Ms Hannah: I do get into humiliation and some aspects of pain but I do it in more of a loving way.

 Ms Hannah: I’m not a hard core yeller

 Miz Ava: I like how you said that

 Miz Ava: Because this sometimes I think is a common misconception about what it means to be a dominant female

 Ms Hannah: Exactly

 Miz Ava: There doesn’t have to be blatant screaming, yelling and/or swearing

 Ms Hannah: I mean some women get into that and they do it very well but it’s just not in my nature

 Miz Ava: Of course, I completely understand

 Ms Hannah: I have more of a soft soothing voice that I would like to keep for a while

 Miz Ava: Good point.  And there certainly may be a time and place to “kick things up a notch or two”

 Ms Hannah: Oh yes, there are times when my voice gets raised especially say, when the occasional fuck-up gets under your skin (laughs)

 Miz Ava: Oooh…and *there* it is! You swore! (laughs)

 Miz Ava: So let me ask you this:  what do think about the concept or assumption that female dominants are supposed to be angry/man haters and such?

 Ms Hannah: I think those who believe that are closed minded.  If they can’t see a woman being strong for who she is then there is something wrong with them

 Ms Hannah: I would never want to be a man (laughs)

 Miz Ava: Oh I couldn’t agree more!

 Ms Hannah: The concept that all female dominants are lesbians and man haters is just ridiculous

 Ms Hannah: We love the male body just as much as anybody else - well anyone who enjoys the male body

 Miz Ava: Right.  That’s an excellent point

 Ms Hannah: It’s just that we have a way of drawing things out of them –making them work for what they want and controlling every aspect of it

 Miz Ava: Very nice, Ms Hannah

 Ms Hannah: Thank you, Miz Ava

 Miz Ava: You mentioned humiliation a few moments ago..and how you tend to approach this aspect of BDSM/fem-domme in a kind of loving way

 Miz Ava: Talk to me a bit about that

 Ms Hannah: Usually when I get humiliation calls it has something to do with penis size or panty lovers

 Miz Ava: Yes

 Ms Hannah: As I said earlier, I don’t yell and scream or belittle them, I have no need to do that

 Ms Hannah: My tone is normal and I still tease and call them names if that’s what they’re looking for but I do it in a way that makes them feel good too

 Miz Ava: Ahhh, yes…a very delicate balance

 Ms Hannah: Tone of voice says a lot

 Miz Ava: It certainly does…and might I add here, that you have such a terrific speaking voice in general

 Ms Hannah: It’s also about intuition

 Miz Ava: Intuition

 Ms Hannah: You know it’s about intuition

 Miz Ava: Where does this intuition come from?

 Ms Hannah: Well it’s good listening

 Miz Ava: Yes–very good point

 Ms Hannah: I have to listen and I run with it but if for some reason I’m not going in the direction that they want then it’s not very hard to change

 Miz Ava: A good Mistress knows the importance of remaining flexible too. Again,    it’s a delicate balance between control and flexibility, sensitivity even, to the submissive’s needs

 Ms Hannah: You have to be extremely flexible and if there is something they want that I don’t do then I direct them to a Mistress that does do it

 Miz Ava: Yes, and that is another sign of a very good Mistress

 Ms Hannah: If I have no experience in something I won’t even attempt it

 Miz Ava: I am glad you brought that up

 Miz Ava: Because it’s important that clients know that they can trust you

 Ms Hannah: They need to trust us just as if we were right there with them

 Miz Ava: That is a very accurate thing to say as well

 Miz Ava: How do you gain a client/sub’s trust? 

 Ms Hannah: I am just up front with them about everything

 Miz Ava: Right, no games or pretenses…

Ms Hannah: No, you can’t play games because and you know this as well as I do, you never know which client will actually do what you are telling them to do

 Miz Ava: Exactly

 Ms Hannah: Some of them just like to pretend but others actually do it

 Miz Ava: I think it’s crucial that clients realize that their safety is always a priority too–like you said–we are not right *there* with them

 Miz Ava: And of course this is exactly where intuition comes in as well

 Ms Hannah: I have one pain slut that actually does everything I tell him to do, I don’t know how he found me (laughs)

 Miz Ava: Must have been fate(grins)

 Ms Hannah: With him I have to be very careful because I don’t want to injure him permanently, and he trusts me explicitly because he knows that

 Miz Ava: Yes, such a key ingredient in any D/s exchange/relationship

 Ms Hannah: Exactly

 Miz Ava: What are your thoughts on pain–using it in sessions, exploring those realms, etc?

 Ms Hannah: I’m not big on pain myself so I don’t get into hardcore pain except for that one boy.

 Miz Ava: Ok

 Ms Hannah: I will however do some ball torture, nipple play and spankings without a problem

 Ms Hannah: And when you hear them whacking their balls with the remote control, its priceless (laughs)

 Miz Ava: Hahaha

 Miz Ava: You are a trip!

 Ms Hannah: I’m still not screaming at them when I’m telling them to do it - my voice just gets a little stern

 Ms Hannah: I think out of my years at LDW, I’ve only had to really yell at someone one time

 Miz Ava: Wow

 Ms Hannah: I hung up on him because he had no clue

 Miz Ava: What brought on the yelling in that situation?  You don’t have to get into specifics if you don’t want to

 Ms Hannah: He was trying to antagonize me and I guess I let him because I did yell

 Miz Ava: Ah ha

 Ms Hannah: See what a lot of men don’t realize is that what makes a woman good in anything, I mean truly exceptional, is because she enjoys what she does

 Ms Hannah: That’s why we have such wonderful women working here

 Ms Hannah: That’s why time and again I’ve heard from clients that our women are the best!

 Miz Ava: Yes, I couldn’t agree more…that is such an important piece…enjoying what you do…

 Miz Ava: Being authentic

 Ms Hannah: You can’t be good at something if you don’t like it, for instance I don’t enjoy adult babies, so I don’t even attempt to do calls with them because I know it wouldn’t be any good

 Miz Ava: That’s so true….because when it comes down to it, it isn’t fair to the client and also people can tell when you are faking it

 Ms Hannah: Right

 Ms Hannah: Oh my god, yes they can

 Miz Ava: Even in the phone medium

 Miz Ava: That is so true. People, *even* men, (wink) are more perceptive than we know sometimes

 Ms Hannah: Yes they are

 Miz Ava: Let me ask you this

 Miz Ava: Since we were touching a bit on sensual pain play, in your opinion—

 Miz Ava: Have you found that there is truly a big difference between pleasure and pain?  (More particularly, as this relates to BDSM/domination scenarios)

 Ms Hannah: I think that if you have the right person that is open to anything and trusts you…that you can explore both and they will both bring you pleasure if done correctly

 Miz Ava: So very well said!

 Ms Hannah: Take figging for instance, if done properly you will have an extremely horny man or woman on your hands

 Miz Ava: Is that something that many clients ask for? 

 Ms Hannah: No, but I wish they did (laughs)

 Miz Ava: May I ask you how you found yourself in this business?

 Ms Hannah: I actually first started doing “vanilla phone sex” and that didn’t last very long

 Ms Hannah: It just wasn’t me - I grew up around very strong women all around me and to act like a submissive slut just wasn’t cutting it

 Miz Ava: Tell me about it.  (I mean that figuratively…)

 Miz Ava: Or

 Miz Ava: You could tell me about it too (smiles)

 Ms Hannah: I said there has to be something better

 Ms Hannah: Well actually I should backtrack a bit

 Miz Ava: Sure. Please feel free

 Ms Hannah: I didn’t want to go into being a pro domina just because of the safety issues

 Miz Ava: Yes, I completely understand

 Ms Hannah: I did/do have some men that I work with but I have met them out of this realm and under different circumstances

 Miz Ava: Right

 Ms Hannah: So unless I have a 250 pound bodyguard I wasn’t going to open up shop

 Miz Ava: I hear you

 Ms Hannah: After the vanilla stint, I started researching and I found LDW

 Ms Hannah: I am not the nine-to-five type of girl, I go to school and needed an income so this is the best way for me to do that

 Ms Hannah: And I ENJOY it

 Miz Ava: Would you mind telling the readers a bit about what you are doing in school?

 Ms Hannah: I am a psychology major

 Ms Hannah: I have decided to focus on some sort of sexual therapy, either working with transgenders or couples

 Miz Ava: Excellent…what a complimentary educational background to have too

 Ms Hannah: I had changed my major after working here for a bit, I was originally going into criminal justice then on to law school

 Ms Hannah: But I have grown a heart so to speak for cross dressers, transgenders, panty-boys and so on because they are so misunderstood

 Miz Ava: Oh I absolutely agree

 Miz Ava: Tell me a bit more about your cross-dressing and transgendered clients…in terms of what they come to sessions to explore with you

 Ms Hannah: Well the cross dressers I have come in contact with all love women, so much that they want to dress like them but they have no interest in sexual encounters with men

 Miz Ava: That’s a good point you bring up too—

 Miz Ava: Lots of misconceptions about CD’s sexual orientation in our society

 Ms Hannah: Oh it’s terrible

 Ms Hannah: They still like women

 Ms Hannah: Now with transgenders, you can have your mix there, some like men but others would like to be in a lesbian relationship

 Miz Ava: That is such a fascinating concept too….I know a lot of “vanilla” people have a hard time wrapping their minds around that

 Ms Hannah: In this day and age you would think people would open their mind and realize that people like us or the clients we deal with are here to stay

 Ms Hannah: So just accept it

 Miz Ava: Well, as I always say

 Miz Ava: Sexuality is on a continuum

  Miz Ava: There are SO many ways to explore sexuality

 Ms Hannah: Don’t you just love it?  I know I do

 Miz Ava: I do!  I think it’s actually a very healthy thing

 Miz Ava: Sadly, our society still sits on a puritanical fence

 Ms Hannah: I feel sorry for women or men that don’t explore their sexuality - I mean push it to the limits and see what you find

 Ms Hannah: You might like it on our side (wink)

 Miz Ava: Would you say that sexuality is a gift? 

 Ms Hannah: I think we have a gift by just being here, so to answer your question, yes I think it is

 Miz Ava: Me thinks there is a bit of a philosopher in Ms Hannah as well…

 Ms Hannah: I think there is some in you too

 Miz Ava: Ahhhh….perhaps we are old philosophical souls…

 Ms Hannah: You have a point there, I’m sure we are

 Ms Hannah: If you go back to Roman times and before they were much more open sexually

 Miz Ava: Yes, that is so very true

 Ms Hannah: So women like us probably originated over there somewhere

 Miz Ava: Yes…most certainly in the form of some sort of Roman Goddesses, of course

 Ms Hannah: Of course!

 Miz Ava: Now, let me ask you this

 Miz Ava: Why do you think so many men prefer phone domination? Or domination in general?

 Ms Hannah: Well you have different reasons - I think some men have such high powered jobs and have to control everything in their daily lives that they just want to give it over to someone else for a change

 Ms Hannah: Others, I think that when they were children, that something just excited them so much that it turned into a fetish for them

 Miz Ava: That’s interesting too, because in our society, for the most part….men are *supposed* to be in control (emotionally, physically, psychologically) all of the time

 Miz Ava: What are some fetishes that you find particularly interesting?

 Ms Hannah: Smoking, sneezing, balloon fetishes

 Ms Hannah: I also really enjoy the Giantess fantasy

 Miz Ava: Oh now you have to enlighten us…please say something more about the balloon fetish!

 Ms Hannah: Actually I have no idea, Ms Ally asked me one day if I could take a balloon fetish call and I had no clue (laughs)

 Miz Ava: Oh my, that is too funny!

 Ms Hannah: I enjoy giantess, foot fetish, body worship, controlling every aspect of the male orgasm…things of that nature

 Miz Ava: Yes…

 Miz Ava: Ok…

 Miz Ava: Now to switch gears for the last few questions–and to have fun with this too

 Miz Ava: Who would play Ms Hannah in the movie about her life?

 Ms Hannah: OH BOY - there are so many sexy women

 Miz Ava: There could be more than one movie

 Ms Hannah: I would love to see Angelina Jolie or Michelle Pfieffer

 Miz Ava: Very nice….

 Miz Ava: Jolie definately has all of the makings of a domme and Pfieffer has such an ethereal, sensual quality to her…I could so see either actress portraying you

Ms Hannah: They are amazing women

Miz Ava: Ok…and answer me this—

Miz Ava: What are three words you would use to best describe yourself?

Ms Hannah: Sensual, dominant, and kinky

Miz Ava: And finally—

Miz Ava: What are three things that really make you go “mmmmm”?

Ms Hannah: You mean three things in general that I find extremely sexy?

Miz Ava: Sure…or if you want to do three tangible things AND three sexy things, that will work too!

Ms Hannah: Johnny Depp would definitely be up there

Miz Ava: Well that goes without saying

Ms Hannah: Hot leather fetish wear

Miz Ava: Nice….

Ms Hannah: And just sexy people in general

Miz Ava: What is sexiness?

Ms Hannah: It doesn’t necessarily have to be all about looks

Ms Hannah: The person has to have personality; looks don’t hurt though (laughs)

Miz Ava: No, they do not!

Ms Hannah: If you have someone that is open minded and has a great personality with a sense of humor - I’m hooked

Miz Ava: Ahhhh….yes indeed

Miz Ava: Humor is so key

Ms Hannah: Oh yes it is - I do enjoy a good smart ass!

Miz Ava: Ms Hannah, I have to say, what an enjoyable interview this has been!

Ms Hannah: It has been my pleasure as well

Erotic humiliation is the consensual use of psychological humiliation in a sexual context, whereby one person gains arousal or erotic excitement from the mixed and powerful emotions of being humiliated and demeaned, or of humiliating another. Wikipedia

There are many types and shades of erotic humilation. Some are overtly and obviously sexual, such as: Orgasm control and denial, body worship, forced homosexuality, sexual slavery, forced feminization.

But some forms of erotic humilation seemingly have little to do with sexuality: verbal insults, embarrasment, performance of menial tasks, restrictions on freedom of activities. In these cases, it is the mind of the one who experiences the humilation which eroticizes an otherwise non-erotic act.

Are you curious about erotic humiliation? Read more from these expert Humiliatrixes:

The Sensual Humiliation Newsletter. A philosophical look at erotic humilation, written by expert Malignatrix, Ms Ava.

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Recently, I had the pleasure of interviewing Ms Tara, one of the experienced phone Mistresses at VoxErotic. Ms Tara has been a phone sex fantasy artist for over 5 years. Her blog, Tara’s Thoughts, is a very personal and fun look at the life of a professional phone Mistress.

But, as Ms Tara herself will tell you, she’s no wind up phone sex doll! She a real person with a real life who is not afraid to share it. Her blog contains posts on everything from celebrating her summer birthday, to passing a little sissy slut around, to erotic stories by girlie guest writers.

Though we talked about so many things, my interview with Ms Tara flew by! Her sense of humor and her storytelling abilities were as evident in our chat as they must be to all the lucky men who phone her. I hope you find her as delightful to read as I found her to talk to:

Ms Veronica: Hi Ms Tara… are you ready to start talking about YOU?

Ms Tara: All about me?

Ms Veronica: Yes, dear, all about you!

Ms Tara: Oh, I don’t know where to start!

Ms Veronica: Well, here’s the good part about an interview: you don’t need to worry about that at all! That’s what you have an interviewer for *smile*

Ms Tara: LOL, okay.

Ms Veronica: So… Let’s start right at the beginning: How in the world did you get started in this business?

Ms Tara: In it’s current incarnations? Pure economics, unfortunately. I had lost my roommate, I was already working two jobs and the idea of spending yet more time outside my home was unthinkable. So, knowing that I enjoyed phone sex recreationally, I went to the computer and began researching. I found a lot of places hiring, but only a few that offered the support and friendliness I felt that I would need. I finally went to work for a female owned company with a wonderful woman who taught me a lot, was completely no bullshit, and believed in me. That is where I met Ms Ally, and later when she opened her company, she asked me to come take some calls for her. With the full knowledge of the woman I worked for, I started with LDW. Both of them impressed me with their integrity and their care for the women who worked for them. Because my experiences have been so good, I was suprised to learn that this is not the industry standard, but far above it.

Ms Veronica: Yes, this is a great company! I feel so absolutely lucky to have found this place! Can you talk a bit about your background with femdom and with phone sex in general?

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