A Teasing Seductress: Ms Hannah

 

In this installment of “Get To Know A Blog Mistress”, meet Ms Hannah, a soft-spken, seductive and intelligent young woman who shares her views on fem-domme scenarios, sensual pain play, the role of trust in D/s exchanges, plus much more!

Ms Hannah initially began her work as a phone fantasy artist in what would be categorized as a more traditional or vanilla phone sex company before joining the ladies at Cock Control.  She recalls intuitively realizing that the traditional phone sex arena did not fit her personality and since then, she has become quite an asset to Phone Madame Ally, proprietress of the wildly successful female domination phone services offered at LDW.

 Ms Hannah enjoys coyly exerting her control over a variety of clients with different fetishes.  Not only does she perfect the art of the tease, but she also uses her background in psychology to get right inside the mind of her clients and seems to have an inherent ability to draw out exactly what her caller needs and provide a most memorable phone session.   

 Miz Ava: Tell me about Ms Hannah’s style of domination

 Ms Hannah: My style of domination, I think, would be considered more sensual

 Miz Ava: Ok I see.  And what does that evoke…the sensual?

 Ms Hannah: I do get into humiliation and some aspects of pain but I do it in more of a loving way.

 Ms Hannah: I’m not a hard core yeller

 Miz Ava: I like how you said that

 Miz Ava: Because this sometimes I think is a common misconception about what it means to be a dominant female

 Ms Hannah: Exactly

 Miz Ava: There doesn’t have to be blatant screaming, yelling and/or swearing

 Ms Hannah: I mean some women get into that and they do it very well but it’s just not in my nature

 Miz Ava: Of course, I completely understand

 Ms Hannah: I have more of a soft soothing voice that I would like to keep for a while

 Miz Ava: Good point.  And there certainly may be a time and place to “kick things up a notch or two”

 Ms Hannah: Oh yes, there are times when my voice gets raised especially say, when the occasional fuck-up gets under your skin (laughs)

 Miz Ava: Oooh…and *there* it is! You swore! (laughs)

 Miz Ava: So let me ask you this:  what do think about the concept or assumption that female dominants are supposed to be angry/man haters and such?

 Ms Hannah: I think those who believe that are closed minded.  If they can’t see a woman being strong for who she is then there is something wrong with them

 Ms Hannah: I would never want to be a man (laughs)

 Miz Ava: Oh I couldn’t agree more!

 Ms Hannah: The concept that all female dominants are lesbians and man haters is just ridiculous

 Ms Hannah: We love the male body just as much as anybody else – well anyone who enjoys the male body

 Miz Ava: Right.  That’s an excellent point

 Ms Hannah: It’s just that we have a way of drawing things out of them –making them work for what they want and controlling every aspect of it

 Miz Ava: Very nice, Ms Hannah

 Ms Hannah: Thank you, Miz Ava

 Miz Ava: You mentioned humiliation a few moments ago..and how you tend to approach this aspect of BDSM/fem-domme in a kind of loving way

 Miz Ava: Talk to me a bit about that

 Ms Hannah: Usually when I get humiliation calls it has something to do with penis size or panty lovers

 Miz Ava: Yes

 Ms Hannah: As I said earlier, I don’t yell and scream or belittle them, I have no need to do that

 Ms Hannah: My tone is normal and I still tease and call them names if that’s what they’re looking for but I do it in a way that makes them feel good too

 Miz Ava: Ahhh, yes…a very delicate balance

 Ms Hannah: Tone of voice says a lot

 Miz Ava: It certainly does…and might I add here, that you have such a terrific speaking voice in general

 Ms Hannah: It’s also about intuition

 Miz Ava: Intuition

 Ms Hannah: You know it’s about intuition

 Miz Ava: Where does this intuition come from?

 Ms Hannah: Well it’s good listening

 Miz Ava: Yes–very good point

 Ms Hannah: I have to listen and I run with it but if for some reason I’m not going in the direction that they want then it’s not very hard to change

 Miz Ava: A good Mistress knows the importance of remaining flexible too. Again,    it’s a delicate balance between control and flexibility, sensitivity even, to the submissive’s needs

 Ms Hannah: You have to be extremely flexible and if there is something they want that I don’t do then I direct them to a Mistress that does do it

 Miz Ava: Yes, and that is another sign of a very good Mistress

 Ms Hannah: If I have no experience in something I won’t even attempt it

 Miz Ava: I am glad you brought that up

 Miz Ava: Because it’s important that clients know that they can trust you

 Ms Hannah: They need to trust us just as if we were right there with them

 Miz Ava: That is a very accurate thing to say as well

 Miz Ava: How do you gain a client/sub’s trust? 

 Ms Hannah: I am just up front with them about everything

 Miz Ava: Right, no games or pretenses…

Ms Hannah: No, you can’t play games because and you know this as well as I do, you never know which client will actually do what you are telling them to do

 Miz Ava: Exactly

 Ms Hannah: Some of them just like to pretend but others actually do it

 Miz Ava: I think it’s crucial that clients realize that their safety is always a priority too–like you said–we are not right *there* with them

 Miz Ava: And of course this is exactly where intuition comes in as well

 Ms Hannah: I have one pain slut that actually does everything I tell him to do, I don’t know how he found me (laughs)

 Miz Ava: Must have been fate(grins)

 Ms Hannah: With him I have to be very careful because I don’t want to injure him permanently, and he trusts me explicitly because he knows that

 Miz Ava: Yes, such a key ingredient in any D/s exchange/relationship

 Ms Hannah: Exactly

 Miz Ava: What are your thoughts on pain–using it in sessions, exploring those realms, etc?

 Ms Hannah: I’m not big on pain myself so I don’t get into hardcore pain except for that one boy.

 Miz Ava: Ok

 Ms Hannah: I will however do some ball torture, nipple play and spankings without a problem

 Ms Hannah: And when you hear them whacking their balls with the remote control, its priceless (laughs)

 Miz Ava: Hahaha

 Miz Ava: You are a trip!

 Ms Hannah: I’m still not screaming at them when I’m telling them to do it – my voice just gets a little stern

 Ms Hannah: I think out of my years at LDW, I’ve only had to really yell at someone one time

 Miz Ava: Wow

 Ms Hannah: I hung up on him because he had no clue

 Miz Ava: What brought on the yelling in that situation?  You don’t have to get into specifics if you don’t want to

 Ms Hannah: He was trying to antagonize me and I guess I let him because I did yell

 Miz Ava: Ah ha

 Ms Hannah: See what a lot of men don’t realize is that what makes a woman good in anything, I mean truly exceptional, is because she enjoys what she does

 Ms Hannah: That’s why we have such wonderful women working here

 Ms Hannah: That’s why time and again I’ve heard from clients that our women are the best!

 Miz Ava: Yes, I couldn’t agree more…that is such an important piece…enjoying what you do…

 Miz Ava: Being authentic

 Ms Hannah: You can’t be good at something if you don’t like it, for instance I don’t enjoy adult babies, so I don’t even attempt to do calls with them because I know it wouldn’t be any good

 Miz Ava: That’s so true….because when it comes down to it, it isn’t fair to the client and also people can tell when you are faking it

 Ms Hannah: Right

 Ms Hannah: Oh my god, yes they can

 Miz Ava: Even in the phone medium

 Miz Ava: That is so true. People, *even* men, (wink) are more perceptive than we know sometimes

 Ms Hannah: Yes they are

 Miz Ava: Let me ask you this

 Miz Ava: Since we were touching a bit on sensual pain play, in your opinion—

 Miz Ava: Have you found that there is truly a big difference between pleasure and pain?  (More particularly, as this relates to BDSM/domination scenarios)

 Ms Hannah: I think that if you have the right person that is open to anything and trusts you…that you can explore both and they will both bring you pleasure if done correctly

 Miz Ava: So very well said!

 Ms Hannah: Take figging for instance, if done properly you will have an extremely horny man or woman on your hands

 Miz Ava: Is that something that many clients ask for? 

 Ms Hannah: No, but I wish they did (laughs)

 Miz Ava: May I ask you how you found yourself in this business?

 Ms Hannah: I actually first started doing “vanilla phone sex” and that didn’t last very long

 Ms Hannah: It just wasn’t me – I grew up around very strong women all around me and to act like a submissive slut just wasn’t cutting it

 Miz Ava: Tell me about it.  (I mean that figuratively…)

 Miz Ava: Or

 Miz Ava: You could tell me about it too (smiles)

 Ms Hannah: I said there has to be something better

 Ms Hannah: Well actually I should backtrack a bit

 Miz Ava: Sure. Please feel free

 Ms Hannah: I didn’t want to go into being a pro domina just because of the safety issues

 Miz Ava: Yes, I completely understand

 Ms Hannah: I did/do have some men that I work with but I have met them out of this realm and under different circumstances

 Miz Ava: Right

 Ms Hannah: So unless I have a 250 pound bodyguard I wasn’t going to open up shop

 Miz Ava: I hear you

 Ms Hannah: After the vanilla stint, I started researching and I found LDW

 Ms Hannah: I am not the nine-to-five type of girl, I go to school and needed an income so this is the best way for me to do that

 Ms Hannah: And I ENJOY it

 Miz Ava: Would you mind telling the readers a bit about what you are doing in school?

 Ms Hannah: I am a psychology major

 Ms Hannah: I have decided to focus on some sort of sexual therapy, either working with transgenders or couples

 Miz Ava: Excellent…what a complimentary educational background to have too

 Ms Hannah: I had changed my major after working here for a bit, I was originally going into criminal justice then on to law school

 Ms Hannah: But I have grown a heart so to speak for cross dressers, transgenders, panty-boys and so on because they are so misunderstood

 Miz Ava: Oh I absolutely agree

 Miz Ava: Tell me a bit more about your cross-dressing and transgendered clients…in terms of what they come to sessions to explore with you

 Ms Hannah: Well the cross dressers I have come in contact with all love women, so much that they want to dress like them but they have no interest in sexual encounters with men

 Miz Ava: That’s a good point you bring up too—

 Miz Ava: Lots of misconceptions about CD’s sexual orientation in our society

 Ms Hannah: Oh it’s terrible

 Ms Hannah: They still like women

 Ms Hannah: Now with transgenders, you can have your mix there, some like men but others would like to be in a lesbian relationship

 Miz Ava: That is such a fascinating concept too….I know a lot of “vanilla” people have a hard time wrapping their minds around that

 Ms Hannah: In this day and age you would think people would open their mind and realize that people like us or the clients we deal with are here to stay

 Ms Hannah: So just accept it

 Miz Ava: Well, as I always say

 Miz Ava: Sexuality is on a continuum

  Miz Ava: There are SO many ways to explore sexuality

 Ms Hannah: Don’t you just love it?  I know I do

 Miz Ava: I do!  I think it’s actually a very healthy thing

 Miz Ava: Sadly, our society still sits on a puritanical fence

 Ms Hannah: I feel sorry for women or men that don’t explore their sexuality – I mean push it to the limits and see what you find

 Ms Hannah: You might like it on our side (wink)

 Miz Ava: Would you say that sexuality is a gift? 

 Ms Hannah: I think we have a gift by just being here, so to answer your question, yes I think it is

 Miz Ava: Me thinks there is a bit of a philosopher in Ms Hannah as well…

 Ms Hannah: I think there is some in you too

 Miz Ava: Ahhhh….perhaps we are old philosophical souls…

 Ms Hannah: You have a point there, I’m sure we are

 Ms Hannah: If you go back to Roman times and before they were much more open sexually

 Miz Ava: Yes, that is so very true

 Ms Hannah: So women like us probably originated over there somewhere

 Miz Ava: Yes…most certainly in the form of some sort of Roman Goddesses, of course

 Ms Hannah: Of course!

 Miz Ava: Now, let me ask you this

 Miz Ava: Why do you think so many men prefer phone domination? Or domination in general?

 Ms Hannah: Well you have different reasons – I think some men have such high powered jobs and have to control everything in their daily lives that they just want to give it over to someone else for a change

 Ms Hannah: Others, I think that when they were children, that something just excited them so much that it turned into a fetish for them

 Miz Ava: That’s interesting too, because in our society, for the most part….men are *supposed* to be in control (emotionally, physically, psychologically) all of the time

 Miz Ava: What are some fetishes that you find particularly interesting?

 Ms Hannah: Smoking, sneezing, balloon fetishes

 Ms Hannah: I also really enjoy the Giantess fantasy

 Miz Ava: Oh now you have to enlighten us…please say something more about the balloon fetish!

 Ms Hannah: Actually I have no idea, Ms Ally asked me one day if I could take a balloon fetish call and I had no clue (laughs)

 Miz Ava: Oh my, that is too funny!

 Ms Hannah: I enjoy giantess, foot fetish, body worship, controlling every aspect of the male orgasm…things of that nature

 Miz Ava: Yes…

 Miz Ava: Ok…

 Miz Ava: Now to switch gears for the last few questions–and to have fun with this too

 Miz Ava: Who would play Ms Hannah in the movie about her life?

 Ms Hannah: OH BOY – there are so many sexy women

 Miz Ava: There could be more than one movie

 Ms Hannah: I would love to see Angelina Jolie or Michelle Pfieffer

 Miz Ava: Very nice….

 Miz Ava: Jolie definately has all of the makings of a domme and Pfieffer has such an ethereal, sensual quality to her…I could so see either actress portraying you

Ms Hannah: They are amazing women

Miz Ava: Ok…and answer me this—

Miz Ava: What are three words you would use to best describe yourself?

Ms Hannah: Sensual, dominant, and kinky

Miz Ava: And finally—

Miz Ava: What are three things that really make you go “mmmmm”?

Ms Hannah: You mean three things in general that I find extremely sexy?

Miz Ava: Sure…or if you want to do three tangible things AND three sexy things, that will work too!

Ms Hannah: Johnny Depp would definitely be up there

Miz Ava: Well that goes without saying

Ms Hannah: Hot leather fetish wear

Miz Ava: Nice….

Ms Hannah: And just sexy people in general

Miz Ava: What is sexiness?

Ms Hannah: It doesn’t necessarily have to be all about looks

Ms Hannah: The person has to have personality; looks don’t hurt though (laughs)

Miz Ava: No, they do not!

Ms Hannah: If you have someone that is open minded and has a great personality with a sense of humor – I’m hooked

Miz Ava: Ahhhh….yes indeed

Miz Ava: Humor is so key

Ms Hannah: Oh yes it is – I do enjoy a good smart ass!

Miz Ava: Ms Hannah, I have to say, what an enjoyable interview this has been!

Ms Hannah: It has been my pleasure as well