I’ll start with the lovely Ms Simone. Her online photo gallery is posted to her blog.  Go to Simone’s Blog to see ALL the latest.  <snicker>

Here’s more of My interview with Ms. Simone:  I asked her to tell us what She feels when She is being served by a man.  Here’s Her response, “My whole body tingles.  The very thought of a man serving Me makes Me climax slightly, (even as I’m writing this I feel a moistness between My legs).  I understand that it goes against the nature of Man to submit because his cock (whether big or small) wants to Rule and Command.  When he submits to Me, he is putting My desires in front of his own and being selfless.  He is being more like a woman by trusting in something that is more emotional than rational.  This nature excites Me because it is ONLY when a man serves that he can be in touch with the caring side of his heart.”

There can, of course, be various ways for a man to serve a mistress.  One of My favorite ways for a man to serve Me is to Stoke For Me.  I enjoy watching YOU masturbate for Me … sometimes I want to be in charge of a guided masturbation session, sometimes I simply want to watch as you perform for Me.  I adore cock control and that, coupled with the fact that you are doing it for ME, is the turnon in My World.

You can always call Me directly and play, in the fantasy of your choice!

Until then, enjoy!

Ms Olivia   1-800-601-6975

$2.50/min., 10 minute minimum, billed to your credit card.

We’ve been talking recently about what makes a great Mistress…..now, let’s get the Mistress view.  I asked Ms Violet to give her take on some of the things that distinguish a Femdom from a “regular” female.

Ms Violet says, “My female friends work M-F jobs in offices, pick up small screaming children on the way home, arrive home to cook a healthy meal for the family, feed their family, do the dishes, kiss their husbands/boyfriends goodnight … then, they get up the next day and do it all again.”

My first thought is …. whew, no wonder why so many females are pissed off!  Just the description of that makes Me tired!  LOL

Ms Violet continues …. As a Femdom I set My hours at My pleasure, spend mornings in passion with My handsome Italian stud boyfriend, by the pool or at the spa, arrive back home to a delicious gourmet lunch prepared by My slave boys.    I putter around My spotless house, which is kept clean by My slave boys.  I spend time on the phone dominating yummy slave boys and sissy girls.  Then, I enjoy a superb dinner prepared by My slave boys, spend time relaxing and talking with My boyfriend, and sleep peacefully on My comfy bed without being disturbed.  I get up the next day and decide what pleases Me to do that day.  And, of course ….. twice a week I have sessions with My sex slaves.”

Well !  There you have it!  Actually, the MYSTERY to Me is why MORE WOMEN aren’t into cock control !

Olivia  1-800-601-6975

$2.50/min., 10 min. minimum, billed to your credit card.

This posting is inspired by magnus <yes YOU, magnus  *grinz* > who I know from the Community Kink Chat Room … and, now, I am getting to know him better via a series of comments we are exchanging on My main/original blog …. yes, I really AM a blogging Mistress … or a phone sex Mistress who knows Her place in the blogosphere …. and, of course, in the World itself.

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

The appeal of submission

What is the appeal of submission?  In an earlier post lil chris said that Ms Violet has “an incredible understanding of the mind of a submissive.”  Ever since lil chris wrote that I’ve been ruminating on the appeal of submission.  magnus identifies part of the appeal as “the giving of oneself and the trust” …. and that comment sparked a lively exchange about the Power Exchange in Dom/sub relationships.  Listen here to My audio on Power Exchange.

The communication of Power

I adore the exploration of power and especially the use of language in the exercise of power.  In fact, I studied Communications not only for My Bachelor’s but also in grad school, specializing in the *language of war.*  Military might is the most extreme use of Power and My interest is how language is used within the communication of issues of war.

The Language of Power

There are various kinds of  “language.”   Yes, there is the Spoken Word and the inflections/intonations of a voice.  Here’s an example:  WordPlay – DESIRE.  There is also the use of body language – the *small smile*, the *wink*, the *raising of eyebrows*, etc.  And, there is, of course, written discourse.  All of these are *merely* the delivery systems of COMMUNICATION.  Language is used to communicate and in the world of phone sex – communication is, obviously, critically important.

Mistress using Erotic Power vs bitchy female

magnus pointed out that there is a BIG DIFFERENCE between a Woman being a FemDom Mistress and a female being bitchy.  I had to laugh.  Here’s what he wrote:  “While I know there’s plenty of variation … a true Domme cares for her sub.  A bitch cares only for herself.”  Oh YEAH there’s a difference between bitchy and Domme!  A true FemDom Mistress understands about the USES of Female Power and is ever aware that the submissive is offering Her a GIFT of SUBMISSION and She honors that GIFT.

I’ll say more about Power Exchange in the next posting.

You can, of course, talk with Me directly about this and anything else on your ….. hmmmmmm……mind!

Ms Olivia    1-800-601-6975

$1.99/minute, for a minimum of 10 minutes, billed directly to your credit card.

I asked Ms Catherine to say something about Her life as a Femdom Mistress and, of course, what She loves about bringing the whole experience of cock control and erotic roleplay to the Blogosphere …. and, of course to the enticing world of phone sex!

You can read her blog here:  Catherine’s blog.

Ms Catherine:  “I’m constantly being asked whether I’m a sensual or strict domme.  The best answer I can give is that I’m both.  I’m naturally dominant and exert that dominance in sundry subtle ways.  Having said that, I have a sharp tongue and can reduce a submissive male to a quivering heap with just a few well-chosen words.  There is rarely, if ever, any reason to shout.  I command respect, rather than fear although a little sprinkling of fear can certainly be spicy!”

Ms Catherine continues, “Being English, I come from a long tradition of kink and an open-minded attitude to all things sexual.  This, of course, means that I have an entirely different perspective from which to explore your fantasies and desires.  That myth about English women being reserved and cold is just that – a myth!  Don’t be fooled by the fact that I conduct myself in a “ladylike” manner – underneath that proper exterior lies a heart that beats with a fierce passion and a mind full of the kinkiest ideas!  Each call is a journey of discovery – for Me and for My caller.  There might be pain, but there is always pleasure – whatever your definition of pleasure might be.”

Ummmmmm, doesn’t that sound Delicious?  You can talk with Ms Catherine directly when you call 1-800-601-6975.

For all of Us here at the Blog Mistresses …… we hope you’re being good (or bad) !

Ms Olivia     1-800-601-6975

www.experiencedmistress.com

www.vanillatease.com

Empress Christine describes herself as a Sensual Domme who controls her subjects with Her confident demeanor, style and knowledge of what a submissive needs.”  Just one look at Her photo will tell you that this is a Superior Woman who knows She is the “total package.”

I recently asked her about the strict or sensual labels and here’s what Ms Christine has to say, “  I do not shout or demand your respect or obedience; although I do reserve those talents for special situations.  I prefer to expect your devotion and admiration.  You will give Me what I want when I ask for it sweetly.”    Ahhhh, now, there’s a Woman after My own heart!  When you’ve got *it* USE IT !  *snicker*

I asked Christine to continue with her comments.  She says, ” I get what I want by asking for it.  This is because I am beautiful and I take the time to take care of Myself and My appearance.  Even on My most casual day, I have a simple elegance to My look and mannerisms that is attractive to all of My pets.”  Ms Christine knows that beauty is more attractive when there’s an intelligence and quick wit to go along with it.  She says, “I am an intelligent Woman who knows what she wants and how to get it.  I am educated and understand not just My own needs but what is going on in the world and the needs of others.  And, yes sweetheart, I do know very well what you need.”

Want to get what you *need* ?  You can call Ms Christine at 1-800-601-6975.

Enjoy!

Olivia 1-800-601-6975

www.experiencedmistress.com

www.vanillatease.com